Are you ready to date again?

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What to look for when dating after divorce

Divorce is a significant life change that often brings a mix of emotions; from relief and joy to uncertainty and anxiety. One of the things people frequently consider after deciding to get divorced is dating again. While the prospect of re-entering the dating scene can be exciting, there are essential considerations to ensure a smooth transition from marriage to dating. Let’s discuss dating during and after divorce, with an eye on helping you make the most of your dating life while respecting the process and the people involved.

Prioritize Your Children’s Well-being

It’s crucial to keep your children’s well-being in mind when re-entering the dating scene.. The best practice is really until the divorce is final, don’t date! And once you do start dating, iIf you’re not in a committed relationship with someone, avoid introducing them to your kids too soon. They don’t need to attend your children’s events or activities at this stage. Your primary focus should be on providing a stable environment for your children during this transition. Keep your dating life and your role as a parent separate until you’re ready to make a committed connection.

How to balance dating and being a single parent:

Dating as a single parent is undeniably complicated. The children are, of course, going to be part of the equation. Some best practices for single parents embarking on the dating journey include 

  • Avoiding hasty decisions
  • Stepping back and analyzing your potential partner
  • Engaging in open conversations with your children
  • Respecting the children’s  pace when it comes to accepting your new partner. 

Furthermore, acknowledging and addressing your child fears, balancing your time, and orchestrating thoughtful meetings between your partner and children, are key components of successful post-divorce dating.

Avoid Rubbing It in Your Ex’s Face

Regardless of the circumstances surrounding your divorce, it’s essential to be sensitive to your ex-partner’s feelings. Even if both parties agreed to end the relationship, constantly flaunting your new dating life in front of them can lead to resentment and unnecessary conflicts. While it’s essential to live your best life, consider doing so discreetly, especially if the divorce is still pending..

Wait Until the Divorce Is Final

One of the most important pieces of advice for those considering dating is to wait until the divorce is finalized. Dating while the divorce process is ongoing can add unnecessary complexity and emotional stress to an already challenging situation. If the person you’re dating is meant to be a part of your future, they will still be there after the divorce is final. Be patient, and hold off on dating until the legal process is complete.

It could save you time and money

Maintaining civility with your spouse during divorce is crucial for a smoother process. Diving headfirst into a new relationship can cause serious conflicts with your soon to be ex. Divorce is already emotionally charged, and feeling doubly wronged or wounded pride can lead to anger and hinder settlement negotiations. Failure to reach an agreement can prolong the typical three to eight months divorce timeline to one or two years, significantly increasing legal costs and court fees. Additionally, rushing into dating can impact spousal support negotiations. Resentment and mistrust can undermine settlement discussions when one spouse feels wronged.

Maintain Discretion on Social Media

In today’s digital age, it’s tempting to share every aspect of your life on social media. However, it’s wise to exercise restraint when it comes to your dating life. Avoid posting details about your new relationships or pictures of your activities on social media platforms, especially if the divorce is still pending. There’s no need to turn your personal life into a public spectacle. Your relationship status doesn’t have to be a topic for public discussion.

Seek Legal Guidance

Navigating the complexities of divorce and dating simultaneously can be challenging. If you have questions or need assistance in finalizing your divorce, don’t hesitate to seek legal help from experts in family law. Professionals can provide you with the necessary guidance and support to ensure a smooth transition.

Re-entering the dating world during and after divorce can be a rewarding experience when done with sensitivity and care. Prioritize the well-being of your children, avoid rubbing your new life in your ex’s face, wait until the divorce is final, maintain discretion on social media, and seek legal guidance when necessary. By following these guidelines, you can navigate this transition with grace and confidence.

 

How to get full custody of your child

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In an ideal situation, both parents would share equal decision-making authority in matters of their children’s upbringing (referred to as “legal custody“), as well as the right to spend equal amounts of time with their children. However, this scenario, although prevalent, may not always be feasible. 

If a parent’s actions, decisions, and lifestyle are potentially endangering a child’s well-being, a judge may grant full custody to the other parent.

Can you ask a judge for sole custody?

Exclusive/Sole custody is a rare arrangement, signifying that one parent is granted all custodial rights, encompassing both legal and physical custody, while the other parent lacks custodial rights. Nevertheless, it’s important to note that having sole custody does not excuse the other parent from their responsibilities, including obligations like child support.

Child custody laws in Georgia put the best interest of the children involved front-and-center. In cases where adults within the family cannot amicably resolve matters, a judge, upon review of the situation, will make a determination based on what they perceive as being in the best interests of the children.

In the majority of cases, it is generally believed that children benefit from ample time spent with both parents, irrespective of the level of conflict between the adults. However, exceptions to this standard do exist. In select circumstances characterized by compelling reasons, one parent can obtain sole custody in Georgia.

Factors for awarding full-custody:

  • Incidents of domestic violence.
  • Issues related to substance abuse.
  • Severe physical or mental health concerns.
  • Significant personal instability.
  • A voluntary agreement between the parents.

One of the more frequent scenarios leading to one parent gaining sole custody is when the other parent acknowledges their inability to effectively parent due to factors such as a lack of skills, physical distance, or time constraints. In situations where one spouse alleges that the other is unfit for parenting or poses a risk to the children, they typically need to provide substantiating evidence to persuade a judge to support their position.

What the courts considering when granting custody

In Georgia, the standard practice is to base custody decisions on the best interests of the minor child. Unless one parent poses a threat to the child, the typical starting point is to identify the primary caregiver for the minor child. In most instances, the primary caregiver will be granted primary physical custody.

The primary caregiver is the parent responsible for waking the child up for school, assisting with daily preparations, providing meals, managing bath time, taking the child to medical appointments, participating in parent-teacher events, and more. In situations where these responsibilities are equally shared, it becomes more challenging for the judge to make a determination. Factors that may come into consideration include work schedules, the availability of time for the children, stability, the capacity to provide for the child’s needs, and, at a certain age, the child’s own preferences may also be taken into account.

The broad factors that judges analyze are:

  • The parents role before the divorce
  • The relationship between the parents
  • The parent’s fitness to make decisions
  • The relationship between the child(ren) and parent(s)
  • The preference of the child

Why work with a family law attorney?

If you’re seriously considering petitioning for sole child custody, we highly recommend working with a family law attorney. Sole physical custody means you are telling the courts that you alone are fit to take responsibility for your child or children. Now, while this might seem like a natural decision for you as a parent, for the courts, it is usually a tall order. 

In order to convince the courts and present the best possible reasoning for your requests, you need to have a legal team behind you counseling and helping along every step of the way. Give our team a call today to learn more. 

Co-Parenting After Divorce in Georgia: What You Should Know

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Let’s be honest – the idea of co-parenting can feel like an impossible feat, especially after a divorce that might have left both of you with wounds that seem irreparable. But here’s the truth: co-parenting is not just a choice; it’s a crucial responsibility in raising your children well. 

Co-parenting takes a lot of work, and it isn’t instantaneous for most divorced couples. But the results of successful co-parenting on your children are well worth it. At The Edwards Law Group, we understand the challenges that divorced couples like you face when it comes to co-parenting, and we’re here to show you that it’s not only possible, but incredibly rewarding.

Understanding Co-Parenting

Co-parenting is a shared commitment between divorced or separated parents to collaborate in raising their children. The root of the term, “Co-,” brings forth notions of cooperation, coordination, collaboration, and agreement. It’s important to recognize, however, that if a parent doesn’t immediately concur with you, it doesn’t necessarily mean a lack of interest in co-parenting. Instead, successful co-parenting necessitates a significant amount of compromise, picking your battles wisely, thoughtful communication, and skilled negotiation. It’s about putting aside personal differences and focusing on the needs and best interests of your kids. While it might feel challenging, remember that your children deserve to have both parents actively involved in their lives.

Is Co-Parenting Possible After a Contentious Divorce?

Absolutely! While it’s natural for emotions to run high after a contentious divorce, eventually, (and especially when you let them) these feelings will subside and you can move on to have at least a civil co-parenting relationship. 

Divorce doesn’t always solve the problems you and your ex-spouse had when you were married. If you had communication problems as a married couple, you are likely still going to have the same communication problems as co-parents. Unless you take proactive steps to avoid or mitigate the causes of these problems. To do so, it’s crucial to shift the focus toward what truly matters – your children’s future. Co-parenting can provide stability and a sense of security for your children, even amid your differences.

Co-Parenting vs. Parallel Parenting

Co-parenting will not look the same for every divorced couple. Some may choose a co-parenting approach, where they actively communicate and cooperate on all aspects of parenting. Others may opt for parallel parenting, where communication is minimal, and each parent manages their responsibilities independently. Regardless of the choice, both approaches can be effective, depending on your situation.

Tips for Successfully Co-Parenting

Co-parenting can be very different from one set of parents to the next, but there are foundational steps to it:

  • Communicate, communicate, communicate: We’ve said it before and we’ll repeat it: If you’re not communicating, you’re not co-parenting. Keep lines of communication open, respectful, and focused on your children. Use tools like email or co-parenting apps to share important information.
  • ALWAYS Put the Children First: Always make decisions with your children’s best interests in mind and avoid involving them in adult conflicts.
  • Consistency and Routine: Maintain a consistent schedule for visitation, activities, and routines in both households to provide stability for your children.
  • Respect Boundaries: Respect each other’s boundaries and personal lives. Focus solely on parenting matters when communicating.
  • Flexible Approach: Be willing to adapt and compromise when necessary. Life is unpredictable, and flexibility can go a long way in co-parenting.

Helpful Co-Parenting Resources

There are also various resources available to support you in your co-parenting journey:

  • Therapeutic Support: Family therapy or counseling can offer a safe space for addressing co-parenting challenges and finding solutions.
  • Parenting Plans: Collaborate with a family law attorney to create a comprehensive parenting plan that outlines responsibilities, schedules, and dispute resolution methods.
  • Parenting Workshops: There are parenting workshops that provide guidance and tools for effective co-parenting. UptoParents.org offers free online classes about co-parenting, as well as informative videos and articles.
  • Parenting Tools: Parenting scheduling and messaging apps like Our Family Wizard, Talking Parents, and 2houses can help you and your ex-spouse communicate more effectively and coordinate schedules more easily.
  • Parenting books and other resources: Mom’s House, Dad’s House by Isolina Ricci, Ph.D. is a great book for co-parents, while Dinosaurs Divorce by Laurene Krasny Brown and Marc Brown is a helpful one for children.

Just Three Things

All of this may seem overwhelming, but successful co-parenting can be condensed into three basic things:

  1. Don’t undermine your co-parent. Don’t speak ill of them or undermine their authority in front of your children, even if you disagree with the decisions they are making (unless it is harming the child). If you disagree with them, discuss matters privately away from your children.
  2. Present a united front. You and your ex-spouse may have disagreements, but when it comes to big issues, especially those affecting your children, you need to be on the same page. Children need consistency; they don’t need to see you and your ex-spouse bickering over every little thing.
  3. Communicate. Co-parenting can never work without communication. It can be difficult not to let past issues and feelings creep in, but it is crucial to keep communication focused and respectful to establish a healthy co-parenting relationship. 

While the path of co-parenting may seem daunting, it can, and will, get better with time, effort, and teamwork. Our team at The Edwards Law Group can be part of that team. We’re here to support you and help you create a positive co-parenting environment that benefits your children’s well-being. Reach out to us today to learn how we can assist you on this journey.

Stress-Free Divorce in Georgia: Is It Possible?

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The decision to divorce is never easy. It’s a step often laden with apprehension and emotional turmoil. The fear of what lies ahead can be overwhelming, and the truth is, no matter what anyone says about it, divorce will always come with some amount of stress. But here’s the good news: there are practical ways to mitigate the stress that often accompanies divorce.

1. Realistic Expectations are Key

One common source of stress during divorce is an unrealistic timeline. Some individuals assume they can wrap up a divorce in a matter of weeks, but in reality, divorce often involves complex issues that require time and attention. Understanding that the process may take several months or even a year can help set more accurate expectations, thus reducing stress.

At The Edwards Law Group, we work closely with you to provide a realistic outlook on the duration of your divorce. Knowing what you’re up against and understanding that it’s manageable for a finite period can significantly alleviate stress. By developing a clear timeframe for your divorce journey, you can better prepare for what lies ahead.

2. Plan for Life After Divorce

Another significant source of stress is the uncertainty about life post-divorce. After spending years planning a future with your spouse and children, changing those plans can be emotionally taxing. To address this, it’s crucial to sit down and explore what you want your life to look like after the divorce.

Our approach at The Edwards Law Group involves assisting you in developing a roadmap during the divorce process that aligns with your post-divorce goals. By visualizing and planning for your life beyond divorce, you can reduce the anxiety associated with the unknown.

3. Seek Professional Guidance

One of the most effective ways to minimize stress during divorce is to secure legal counsel right from the beginning, often even before you file for divorce. While some may consider handling the process alone, it’s essential to recognize that divorce cases can be legally complex and emotionally charged. Each divorce is unique, and unexpected challenges can arise.

Our experienced attorneys at The Edwards Law Group are well-versed in divorce matters and can provide invaluable guidance throughout the process. By entrusting your case to us, you can navigate the intricacies of divorce more confidently, sparing yourself undue stress.

Additional Tips for Reducing Stress During Divorce

Prioritize Self-Care

Divorce is emotionally taxing. Don’t neglect self-care during this challenging time. Ensure you’re getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

Lean on a Support System

Share your feelings and concerns with trusted friends and family members. Having a support system can help you process your emotions and provide a valuable source of encouragement.

Consider Therapy

Professional therapy or counseling can be immensely beneficial during a divorce. A therapist can help you navigate the emotional aspects of divorce and provide coping strategies.

Stay Organized

Keep all relevant documents and paperwork organized. This can reduce stress related to the logistical aspects of divorce.

Focus on Communication

Effective communication with your ex-spouse is essential, especially if you have children. Clear and respectful communication can prevent unnecessary conflicts.

Set Realistic Goals

Establish achievable goals for yourself during and after the divorce. Celebrate small victories and milestones along the way.

Embrace Change

Accept that change is a natural part of life. Be open to new opportunities and experiences as you transition into your post-divorce life.

Divorce is undoubtedly challenging and is never stress-free, but it doesn’t have to be overwhelmingly stressful. By setting realistic expectations, planning for your future, seeking professional guidance, and prioritizing self-care, you can navigate divorce with greater ease. Remember that you don’t have to go through this process alone—The Edwards Law Group is here to guide you, alleviating stress and providing support as you move forward. Give us a call today to schedule a confidential consultation.

The Mediation Process in Georgia: What You Need to Know

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Divorce and separation can be emotionally challenging journeys, often filled with complex decisions and disputes. However, this does not always have to be the case. In Georgia, most family law  cases undergo a mediation process before they are presented before a judge. 

The mediation process provides a valuable alternative to traditional courtroom battles. This article explores the mediation process in Georgia, shedding light on how it works, its benefits, and why it’s a crucial consideration for couples seeking an amicable resolution to their dispute.

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a dispute resolution method that involves the assistance of a neutral third party, known as a mediator. The mediator’s role is to facilitate constructive communication between the parties, helping them reach mutually acceptable solutions. Unlike a judge, the mediator doesn’t make decisions for the couple but guides them toward finding their resolutions.

In many cases, judges in Georgia often require couples to engage in the mediation process before proceeding to a court hearing where personal matters are openly discussed. Family Law  proceedings can be terrifying, and filled with all kinds of emotions. Mediation offers a valuable opportunity to step back from the turmoil and intensity, allowing individuals to express their needs and desires in a more human and less pressured environment. It grants couples the space to communicate freely, unfettered by external influences, ultimately leading to mutually agreeable decisions. This is the essence of what the mediation process provides.

The Mediation Process for Divorce

The absence of courtroom arguments doesn’t imply that mediation cannot lead you to your desired outcome. Instead, it paves a different path, devoid of the pressure associated with presenting your case and seeking validation from a third party.

The process of mediation is typically as follows:

  1. Initiating Mediation: Either party can propose mediation, or it may be court-ordered. Mediation typically begins with both parties agreeing to participate voluntarily.
  2. Preparing your case: As with a court hearing, if you hire an attorney, you’ll still have the advantage of legal counsel, who will be responsible for diligently preparing your case for mediation. Whether you choose to enlist an attorney’s assistance or decide to go through the process on your own, the importance of comprehensive preparation remains. Without professional guidance, you’ll find yourself managing the stress of case preparation alone, ensuring that all arguments and documentation are meticulously organized.
  3. Choosing a Mediator: Couples select a qualified and experienced mediator who specializes in family law and divorce mediation. The mediator’s role is to remain impartial and assist in resolving disputes.
  4. Initial Meeting: The first part of the mediation session involves an introduction to the process and the establishment of ground rules. The mediator outlines the confidentiality of the proceedings and ensures both parties have an equal opportunity to speak.
  5. Identifying Issues: The mediator assists in identifying the specific issues that need resolution, whether it’s child custody, property division, spousal support, or other matters.
  6. Open Communication: During the mediation, the mediator facilitates open and constructive communication between the parties. They encourage each side to express their concerns, needs, and preferences, while remaining respectful to the other party.
  7. Generating Solutions: With the mediator’s guidance, both parties work together to create potential solutions to the issues at hand. These solutions are discussed, revised, and refined until mutually acceptable agreements are reached.
  8. Formalizing Agreements: Once agreements are made, they are formalized into legally binding documents, which may be submitted to the court for approval as part of the case settlement.

Benefits of Mediation

  • Cost-Effective: Mediation is generally more cost-effective than a lengthy court battle, as it involves fewer legal fees and less time spent in court.
  • Empowerment: Mediation empowers couples to actively participate in shaping their agreements, rather than having decisions imposed upon them.
  • Confidentiality: Mediation proceedings are private and confidential, protecting sensitive information from becoming public record.
  • Reduced Conflict: The collaborative nature of mediation often results in reduced conflict and a more amicable post-divorce relationship.
  • Timely Resolution: Mediation can lead to quicker resolutions, allowing both parties to move forward with their lives.

The mediation process in Georgia offers parties a valuable opportunity to navigate their separation amicably, collaboratively, and on their terms. By choosing mediation, parties can take control of their proceedings, reduce conflict, and foster a more harmonious post-divorce environment for themselves and their children. 

Optimal Outcome from Mediation with The Edwards Law Group

Whether court-ordered or voluntarily chosen, mediation is a powerful tool for resolving disputes and finding common ground during this challenging life transition.

The key to successful mediation is thorough preparation and a clear focus on your ultimate objective. Having your end goal in mind throughout the mediation process is paramount, and having a well-defined roadmap to reach that destination is equally vital. This all circles back to the importance of being fully prepared.

At The Edwards Law Group, we’re committed to ensuring your mediation process is as meticulously prepared as any trial. Your desired outcome is our priority. Don’t leave your mediation to chance; let us guide you toward a successful resolution. Contact us today to embark on this journey with confidence. Your future is in capable hands.

Effective Co-Parenting: Back to School & Parenting Plans

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Navigating the back-to-school season as a newly separated couple with children is undeniably not easy. The bittersweet mix of memories and uncertainties can make even the strongest of hearts quiver. It’s a time when the weight of the past collides with the challenges of the present, and the uncertainty of the future.

In this intricate dance of co-parenting, it is not unusual for the parents to find themselves fighting with each other. It’s natural, and not even that unusual, given that both parents are having to learn how to effectively communicate and navigate their new life situation. In the grand scheme of things, moving past the fighting and arguing and coming to an agreement to make a path forward for the benefit of the children is what’s really important. 

As you face the upcoming school days, remember that the small steps you take to bridge the chasm between the other parent and you will lay the foundation for your child’s academic and emotional success. To be as prepared as you can be, we’ve come up with this short checklist to help you get everything in order. As always, our Atlanta Family Law attorneys are here to help and our site is a library of free resources to help you navigate your best future.

School Choice and Co-Parenting:

There are two types of custody in Georgia; Legal and Physical. Courts often lean towards the parents sharing joint legal custody, however one parent usually has ultimate decision making and primary physical custody. Whether the decision revolves around enrolling in private school, charter school, or whatever it may be, we recommend engaging in communication with the other parent before making a final decision.

In cases of joint legal custody, the rights of both parents hold significant weight when it comes to pivotal choices that shape their children’s lives. This includes school choice. In other words, where children will be enrolled, or if they will be homeschooled.

Parenting plans are crafted so that both parents consult with each other, share information, and dialogue before a final decision is made. Even if one parent has the ultimate decision making power, the goal of successful co-parenting is to have a working relationship with the other side.

Can you enroll your child in extracurricular activities?

Which and how many extracurricular activities a child can participate in can be as contentious a topic as which school they attend. As with school choice, we always recommend that parents try to come up with a fair and balanced agreement to extracurriculars, keeping in mind that the children will have an opinion in what they want to do as they get older. 

Back-to-School Co-Parenting Checklist:

  • Review your parenting plan
  • Talk about transportation to and from school, after school, and other places
  • Talk about school supplies
  • Agree on a bed-time schedule
  • Discuss Church activities
  • If the child is old enough, can they have a Part-time job
  • Weekend activities
  • Set up good information sharing habits
  • Talk about college applications

Ideally, you have a parenting plan in place and it addresses the back-to-school season. However, if this is not the case, you might want to consider a post-divorce modification to your plan.

What if you simply can’t agree with the other parent?

If finding common ground for the sake of your children seems genuinely unattainable, one of the co-parents might need to contemplate pursuing a modification of parenting time action with the Court. However, it’s crucial to bear in mind that altering a custody order can evolve into a protracted and financially demanding process. Thus, it should only be embarked upon if it unmistakably aligns with the children’s paramount well-being.

For disputes demanding immediate attention, the option of seeking emergency custody or an accelerated custody modification hearing may be viable. It’s important to acknowledge that the determination of what qualifies as an “emergency” can differ between courts in different counties. Consequently, assurance of a hearing is not a given. In cases where neither an emergency nor an expedited hearing is an option, the prospect of waiting for a court hearing stretches across several months, even up to a year. In anticipation of potential delays, it’s wise to have an alternative course of action prepared and at the ready.

If you think a child custody order needs to be changed, or if an ex-spouse is pushing to change an order and you don’t agree, the Atlanta family law attorneys at Edwards Law Group are here to help. We know Georgia family law inside out with years of experience. We’re understand what you’re going through and know how to make it better. Drop us a call at 770-723-7211 for a chat about your case today.

Navigating Divorce During the School Year: Putting Children First

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There is never an ideal time to file a Divorce. It’s not uncommon for couples to find themselves contemplating divorce or starting the process right as the school year begins. This decision can have a profound impact on the children, stirring up emotions that can make the already challenging situation of starting a school year even more complex. 

At The Edwards Law Group, we understand the delicate balance of divorce and its effects on children. We’re here to offer guidance and support during the process to help you make the best decisions and actions for your children through this difficult time.

The Timing of Divorce and How It Affects Children

While there’s no perfect time for divorce, getting your divorce finalized before the hectic school year begins can be a wise move, especially when considering the well-being of your children. Some parents opt to initiate divorce proceedings as summer nears, using the school break to facilitate adjustments and emotional distress that the children may suffer. Some divorcing couples choose to postpone the news until after the summer vacation, aiming to lessen the impact on their children.

These timeframes can be helpful  in managing the transition for children. For instance, kids may be attending summer camps, giving parents an opportunity to rearrange living situations without immediate disruption. Additionally, this may give the parents time to plan how to communicate the divorce to their children, aiding in their adjustment and minimizing the disruption in the children’s focus and stability during the school year.

The beginning of the school year, however, can be a particularly sensitive time for children. Children may already feel anxious about heading back to school, and having to deal with their parents getting divorced may only add to this anxiety. They might feel a mix of nerves and worry about how to discuss their changing family dynamics with friends and teachers.

As children embark on a new academic year, their routines and stability become crucial for their emotional and educational growth. Divorce during this period can disrupt their sense of normalcy, leading to increased stress and emotional challenges. These lingering emotions can impact their focus, potentially causing a dip in academic performance or a decreased drive for success.

How Divorce Affects Children’s Academic Performance

Recent studies have shown that divorce can indeed impact a child’s academic performance. Children of divorced parents are more likely to experience a decline in their grades and overall school performance. They are also less likely to finish high school or go on to college.

This emphasizes the importance of approaching divorce during the school year with care and consideration for your children’s educational well-being.

Tips for Starting a Divorce and Co-Parenting During the School Year

If you’re considering divorce during or right before the school year, it’s essential to prioritize your children’s needs and minimize disruption. Here are some tips to help you navigate this challenging period:

  • Open and Honest Communication: Talk to your children about the changes they may experience. Be transparent about the situation while reassuring them of your love and support.
  • Keep Communication Lines Open and Child-Centered: This pertains to your communication with your ex-spouse. If you are not communicating, you are not co-parenting. You need to discuss everything that involves your children. Establish guidelines and consistent rules for your children, and make sure your conversations are focused on your children at all times.
  • Maintain Routine: Consistency is key. Try to keep routines as stable as possible, including school routines, extracurricular activities, and family traditions. Talk with your ex-spouse to ensure this routine is followed in both your new households.
  • Collaborative Co-Parenting: Work together with your soon-to-be-ex-spouse to create a co-parenting plan that considers your children’s schedules and needs.
  • Stay Involved: Both you and your ex-spouse should stay engaged in your children’s education. Make sure you and your ex-spouse are on the school’s emergency contact list, and that both of you are informed of anything school-related. Attend parent-teacher conferences and maintain communication with their teachers to monitor their progress. Also ensure that your children’s teachers are aware of the situation.
  • Therapeutic Support: Consider counseling or therapy for your children to provide them with a safe space to express their feelings during this time of change.
  • Have a Support Team: Transitioning from a two-parent household to a single-parent household is no easy feat. You will need the support of others around you. You may need a tutor to help your children with their academics, a babysitter to help look after your children when you need time for yourself, a therapist or family counselor to help you and your ex-spouse ease into the new co-parenting arrangement, and maybe even a close family member or friend who could help you around the house.
  • Legal Guidance: Enlist the help of experienced family law attorneys to guide you through the legal process while keeping your children’s best interests at heart.

Focus on Your Children

Above all, stay focused on your children. No matter who initiated the divorce, the reasons for it, or the situations and challenges that you and your ex-spouse will eventually face, always bring the focus back to your children. Remember that:

  • Their physical, emotional, and psychological needs must come first.
  • They love both you and your ex-spouse, and they don’t want, nor should they have to pick sides.
  • They are not your “spies” or source of information on your ex-spouse, nor are they adults. They should not take on responsibilities or tasks that they are not ready for or feel uncomfortable with.
  • They want to have both you and your ex-spouse in their lives.

Remember, It’s Not Just When, But How

While the timing of divorce is important, how you approach it matters just as much. A divorce handled with sensitivity, open communication, and a focus on your children’s well-being can mitigate the impact of the timing on their lives.

No matter when, getting divorced is never easy, especially when children are involved. Our team at The Edwards Law Group is dedicated to assisting families in making this transition as smooth as possible for everyone involved. Contact us today to learn how we can help you navigate divorce while prioritizing the well-being of your children.

Who Gets the Family Pet in a Divorce in Georgia?

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Pets are cherished members of our families. They offer unconditional love and companionship, and bring immense joy to our lives. However, when a divorce occurs, the question of who gets to keep the family pet can add an additional layer of complexity and emotion to an already challenging situation.

At The Edwards Law Group, we understand the significance of your furry friends and are here to provide the legal guidance and support you need at this challenging time.

For many couples, pets are considered part of the family unit, some even benefit from pet trusts! They bring comfort and stability, especially to children, and are often deeply loved by both spouses. However, during a divorce, determining the custody of a beloved pet can be a source of contention and heartache.

How is Pet Custody Decided in Georgia?

In Georgia, pets are generally considered property in the eyes of the law. As such, they are subject to the same property division rules applied to other assets. Typically, the court aims to distribute property equitably. However, when it comes to pets, determining what is fair and equitable can often be challenging due to the unique nature of the situation.

In most cases, the courts in Georgia tend to award custody of the family pet to one spouse. They consider factors such as primary caregiving responsibilities and the strength of the bond between the pet and each spouse. The court also takes into account evidence of time spent with the pet and instances of abuse or neglect, and may consider witness testimony, photos, and other relevant evidence.

It’s important to note that Georgia courts recognize the unique emotional connection between owners and their pets, and strive to make decisions that are in the best interest of all parties involved, including the pet.

Factors That Determine Pet Ownership

When determining pet ownership in Georgia, the court considers several factors:

  • Prior Ownership: If one spouse brought the pet into the marriage or can provide proof of sole ownership, they may have a stronger claim to ownership after the relationship has ended. This can include documentation such as adoption papers, registration, or veterinary records.
  • Primary Caregiver: The court will consider which spouse has been the primary caregiver for the pet during the marriage. Factors such as feeding, grooming, exercising, and medical care are taken into account.
  • Emotional Support Animal: If the pet serves as an emotional support animal for one of the spouses, the court may consider the bond and the potential impact on the well-being of that spouse when making ownership decisions.
  • Child Custody: If there are children involved, the court may consider the bond between the pet and the children, as well as the impact of separating them.

It’s important to note that the court’s decision regarding pet ownership can vary depending on the specific circumstances of the case. Each situation is unique, and the court will strive to make a fair and reasonable determination that ensures the well-being of the pet.

Why You Need the Help of an Atlanta Pet Custody Attorney

Navigating the complexities of pet ownership during a divorce can be overwhelming, emotionally charged, and legally intricate. To protect the best interests of your furry companion and ensure a favorable outcome, it is crucial to seek the help of an experienced Atlanta pet custody attorney.

A skilled attorney will advocate for your rights and guide the process. They will help you gather evidence to support your claim for pet custody, negotiate on your behalf, and, if necessary, represent you in court.

At The Edwards Law Group, we know that for most pet owners, pets are not just property—they are cherished members of your family deserving of care and consideration. We understand the unique challenges of pet custody cases and have the expertise to assist you. Our compassionate attorneys will listen to your concerns, provide personalized advice, and work diligently to protect your pet’s well-being.

Contact The Edwards Law Group today for a consultation and let us provide the support and guidance you need. Together, we can navigate the complexities of pet custody and ensure that your furry friend’s best interests are protected.

Marital Fault in Divorce: Understanding the Impact in Georgia

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Divorce is never easy, and in the state of Georgia, various factors can influence the outcome of a divorce case. One such factor is marital fault. If you find yourself going through a divorce in Georgia, it’s important to understand how marital fault can affect the proceedings. The Edwards Law Group can provide you with the legal advice and support you need on this matter. Here we’ve outlined some general information regarding marital fault and how it impacts divorce in Georgia, but each case is unique. To get sound legal advice regarding your specific case it is best to consult with our family attorney.

Understanding Marital Fault in Georgia

Marital fault refers to actions or behaviors that contributed to the breakdown of the marriage. In Georgia, fault-based divorces require specific evidence to prove the allegations. Unlike some states that only allow for no-fault divorces, Georgia recognizes both fault and no-fault grounds for divorce.

Common Reasons for Divorce in Georgia

While there are several common reasons for divorce, including the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage, there are specific instances where marital fault comes into play. These common reasons for divorce include:

  • Adultery: Infidelity and extramarital affairs can deeply affect the trust and commitment within a marriage, often leading to divorce.
  • Desertion: When one spouse intentionally abandons the other without any reasonable cause or consent, desertion can be grounds for divorce.
  • Cruel Treatment: Physical, emotional, or verbal abuse within the marriage can be cited as cruel treatment and may be grounds for divorce.
  • Addiction and Substance Abuse: Substance abuse issues, such as alcoholism or drug addiction, can place significant strain on a marriage, leading to divorce.

When Is a Fault Divorce an Option?

While Georgia allows for no-fault divorces, there are instances where a fault divorce may be pursued. Some reasons why a fault divorce may be an option include:

  • Seeking a Faster Divorce: In some cases, filing for a fault divorce can expedite the divorce process compared to waiting for a mandatory separation period in a no-fault divorce.
  • Impact on Alimony and Property Division: Marital fault can influence the court’s decision on issues such as alimony and property division. The court may consider the fault when determining the division of assets and awarding spousal support.
  • Emotional Closure and Accountability: Claiming fault in a divorce can provide a sense of closure for the aggrieved spouse and hold the other party accountable for their actions.

How Does Marital Fault Affect the Outcome of a Divorce?

When fault is proven in a divorce case, it can impact various aspects of the divorce proceedings, including:

  • Alimony: The court may consider fault when determining the amount and duration of alimony. For example, a spouse who is found to have committed adultery, that spouse often forfeits their right to ANY alimony.
  • Property Division: Marital fault can influence the division of marital assets. However, it’s important to note that Georgia follows an equitable distribution model, meaning that the court aims for a fair and just division of property, regardless of fault.
  • Child Custody: Marital fault, especially if it impacts the well-being of the children, can be a factor in determining child custody arrangements. The court prioritizes the best interests of the child when making custody decisions.

Should You Claim Adultery?

Claiming adultery as grounds for divorce is a personal decision that requires careful consideration. While adultery can be a valid reason for seeking a fault divorce, it’s important to weigh the potential benefits against the emotional and financial costs of proving the allegation. Consulting with an experienced divorce attorney can help you understand the potential implications and guide you through the decision-making process.

What Can This Cause in the Divorce Proceedings?

Claiming marital fault, such as adultery, in a divorce can introduce additional complexities and emotions into the proceedings. Some potential effects include:

  • Increased Tension: Accusing a spouse of marital fault can heighten tensions between both parties, making the divorce process more adversarial and contentious.
  • Burden of Proof: To successfully claim marital fault, you will need to provide sufficient evidence to substantiate your allegations. This can involve gathering documentation, witness testimonies, or other forms of proof, which can be a demanding and time-consuming process.
  • Impact on Children: Divorce proceedings involving claims of marital fault, especially adultery, can have a significant impact on children. Exposure to such allegations can create emotional distress and strain the parent-child relationships.
  • Emotional Toll: Pursuing a fault divorce and reliving the details of a broken marriage can take an emotional toll on both parties. You need to consider your emotional well-being and seek support from friends, family, or a therapist during this challenging time.
  • Publicity and Privacy Concerns: Divorce cases involving claims of marital fault may attract media attention or become public record. This can potentially compromise your privacy and expose personal details of your marriage.

Navigating the complexities of a fault divorce requires the guidance of a skilled divorce attorney who can provide legal advice tailored to your unique circumstances. The Edwards Law Group specializes in divorce and family law in Georgia and has the expertise to guide you through the process with compassion and professionalism.

At The Edwards Law Group, we understand the emotional and legal challenges you face when considering a fault divorce. Our dedicated team is here to listen to your concerns, explain your options, and advocate for your rights throughout the proceedings.

If you are considering a divorce in Georgia and believe that claiming marital fault may be relevant to your case, we encourage you to reach out to us for a consultation. We will provide you with the information and support you need to make informed decisions about your future.

Guide To Asset Division in Georgia: Real Estate

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For many people, one of the most significant concerns during a divorce is the division of assets. In Georgia, property division during divorce is guided by specific laws and principles. If you find yourself going through a divorce and facing the complexities of asset division, The Edwards Law Group is here to provide you with the legal advice and support you need during your divorce process.

When it comes to real estate, the stakes can feel particularly high. The family home holds not only financial value but also sentimental attachments and memories. As you navigate the complex details of property division, it’s important to understand how real estate is viewed and divided in a Georgia divorce.

Separating Marital Property and Non-Marital Property

When dividing real estate, it’s essential to distinguish between marital property and non-marital property. Marital property generally includes assets acquired during the marriage, such as the family home purchased after the wedding. Non-marital property consists of assets owned individually before the marriage or acquired through gifts or inheritances.

During asset division, it’s crucial to gather documentation and evidence to support the classification of property as marital or non-marital. This includes deeds, purchase agreements, financial records, and any other relevant documents.

Who Gets the House in a Divorce?

Often, the most significant marital asset is the family house. Determining who gets the house in a divorce depends on several factors. While it’s understandable to have an emotional attachment to your family home, the final decision will be based on a thorough evaluation of the circumstances.

If the couple purchased their marital residence together during their marriage, it is generally considered marital property. Similarly, if one party acquired the house before marriage but the other made contributions to it, such as through renovations, the property may be deemed marital property and subject to division.

How Can the House Be Divided?

There are several ways the house can be divided during a divorce. One option is for one spouse to keep the house while the other receives other assets of comparable value. In this case, it’s crucial to accurately determine the fair market value of the property to ensure an equitable distribution.

Another option is to sell the house and divide the proceeds between the spouses. This approach allows for a clean break and a fresh start for both parties. However, selling the house can be a complex process, and it’s important to work with experienced professionals to ensure a smooth transaction.

Is It Possible to Co-Own the House?

In some situations, co-owning the house may be a viable solution. This arrangement can be beneficial, especially when there are children involved or when neither spouse is willing nor financially able to buy out the other. However, co-ownership requires careful consideration and clear agreements on matters such as mortgage payments, property maintenance, and future sale or buyout possibilities.

Georgia’s Separate Property Laws

In Georgia, property is generally categorized as either separate or marital property. Separate property, which could be considered your personal property, includes assets acquired before the marriage, as well as gifts or inheritances received by one spouse individually. This type of property is typically not subject to division during divorce and remains with the spouse who owns it. 

Marital Property in Georgia

Unlike some other states, Georgia does not follow a strict community property system. Instead, it adheres to an equitable distribution approach, which means that marital property is divided in a fair and just manner, not necessarily equal, taking into consideration various factors.

  • Length of the Marriage: The duration of the marriage plays a role in determining how property is divided. Longer marriages may result in a more equal distribution of assets.
  • Contributions to the Marriage: The contributions made by each spouse during the marriage, both financial and non-financial, are taken into account. This includes contributions to the acquisition, preservation, or appreciation of marital property.
  • Economic Status of Each Spouse: The economic circumstances and earning capacities of both spouses are considered. Factors such as income, future earning potential, and financial needs are taken into account to ensure a fair division.
  • Child Custody and Support: If there are children involved, the custody arrangement and child support obligations may influence the division of assets. The court considers the best interests of the child when making property division decisions.
  • Age and Health of Each Spouse: The age and health of the spouses can be factors in property division. For example, if one spouse has health issues or is approaching retirement age, they may require additional financial support.
  • Debts and Liabilities: The court also takes into consideration the debts and liabilities of each spouse. This includes mortgages, loans, credit card debts, and any other financial obligations.
  • Marital Misconduct: While Georgia is a no-fault divorce state, instances of marital misconduct such as adultery or financial misconduct can still be considered as factors in property division.
  • Future Financial Prospects: The court may consider the future financial prospects of each spouse, including potential inheritances, career advancements, or the ability to generate income in the future.

These factors are not exhaustive, and the court has discretion in determining the weight given to each factor based on the specific circumstances of the case. Additionally, property division can be influenced by other applicable laws and legal precedents.

If you are going through a divorce and have concerns about the division of marital property, it’s crucial to consult with an experienced divorce attorney who can provide personalized guidance based on your situation. The Edwards Law Group is here to support you and protect your interests during this challenging process. Contact us today for a consultation to discuss your case in detail.

Get Legal Assistance When Dividing Property in Georgia

Navigating the division of real estate during a divorce in Georgia can be a complex and emotionally charged process. Understanding the state’s separate property laws, the concept of community property, and the available options for dividing the house is crucial.

If you are going through a divorce and facing asset division, The Edwards Law Group is here to support you every step of the way. Our compassionate and knowledgeable attorneys will provide you with the guidance and expertise needed to protect your rights and ensure a fair outcome. 

We know that your family home and the assets tied to it hold significant value, both financially and emotionally. Trust The Edwards Law Group to guide you through the complexities of property division in Georgia. Let us be your partner in securing the future you deserve.